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1-2 Months Before The Event
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Confirm the date. |
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Decide whether or not the shower will be a surprise.
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Draw up a guest list.
Creating the list in alphabetical order will make it easier to track RSVPs.
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Choose the location.
Knowing how big your guest list is will help you determine how much space is needed.
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If the location is in a restaurant or other catered facility, skip the next two steps. |
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Plan the menu.
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Choose a caterer or where you will pick up the food if the shower is not in a restaurant.
Of course, you might decide to prepare everything yourself - or have a pot luck shower! |
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Gather addresses for invitees.
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Decide on a theme/color scheme.
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Plan any activities.
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Decide on party favors.
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Secure any additional entertainment (music, etc.).
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Mail invitations 4 weeks prior to event.
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2-3 Weeks Before The Event
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Confirm the menu.
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Confirm guest count.
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Order any special desserts/cakes.
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Purchase tableware.
Tableware includes tablecloths, utensils, plates, cups, napkins, etc.
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Purchase decorations.
Decorations can include centerpieces, welcome sign, confetti, wall decorations, hanging decorations, banners, streamers, disposable cameras for each table.
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Purchase party favors. (If ordering online, you might need to do this earlier.) |
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Purchase prizes for games.
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Order flowers, if necessary.
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Order any necessary rentals, i.e. tables, chairs, etc.
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Purchase guest book (if you are planning on having one).
Fun guest book activity:
On a small table by the entrance of the event, place the a small scrapbook, Polaroid camera, glue stick, colored markers, and any other decorations you’d like to offer.
Have each attendee take a picture with the guest of honor and then decorate their page (around their Polaroid picture) with a personal note.
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1 Week Before The Event |
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Determine an accurate guest count. (Make follow-up calls, if necessary. |
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Prepare table assignments, and/or name tags (if desired). |
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Purchase gift for guest of honor – or organize the purchase of a group gift. |
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Place order for balloons (if desired). |
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Place order for food platters/sandwiches, etc. to be made by vendor (if using outside sources). |
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Choose background music. (Make sure equipment is working properly!)
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Prepare printed menu and cocktail menu – or cards for buffet table (if desired).
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1 Day Before The Event |
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Prepare platters and/or pick up any special food platters ordered (unless there is time on the day of event).
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Purchase beverages.
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Call vendors to confirm orders.
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Have cash on hand to tip vendors (if desired).
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Make sure camera and/or video camera is charged (and has film if necessary).
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Wrap gifts for game winners and review instructions for games.
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Wrap your gift for guest of honor.
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Pick up flowers (unless there is time on the day of the event).
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Pick up cake (unless there is time on the day of event).
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Prepare street signs leading to party (if necessary).
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Pick up any party rentals not being delivered.
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Clean house and party area(s).
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Day of the Event |
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Decorate!
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If using flowers, place on tables, buffet table, and/or restroom.
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Display name tags, and/or table assignments (if applicable).
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Buy ice (if needed).
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Display foods on buffet table.
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Prepare a gift table.
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Pick up or prepare balloons (if they are not being delivered).
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Set up tables and/or any seating arrangements.
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Place party favors on tables.
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Set out beverages, glassware (or plastic ware), ice, coffee (if serving coffee), and condiments.
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If using street signs, put them up 15 minutes before people are expected to arrive.
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Take a deep breath, look around at all of your wonderful work, and get ready to enjoy a wonderful event!
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