Okay... we live in an A frame house, and the hubby and I's bedroom is basically "the loft" with a door. The ground floor only has one bedroom, which is his 6, almost 7 year old son's (Dylan) room. We do have a basement, which is totally finished, but obviously neither of us want the baby in the basement. My biggest thing is having a nursery for this baby, and he doesn't understand the importance of a nursery... so what do we do about it? He says he's not moving Dylan down there, even though the kid never wants to sleep in his own room ANYWAY. There's apparently no way we can add on, and I've been stressing about this since before we found out we were pregnant. I'm not keen on having the baby share a room, since Dylan is almost 7 years old and has wayyyyy too much stuff in there. What am I supposed to do!? How can I even say anything without causing an argument?

... Any advice would be appreciated!