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How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were Pregnant?
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How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were Pregnant? | 2/11/09 7:35 AM
How did you share the good news with the father-to-be?

Whether you took the pregnancy test together, wrapped it up in a box with a bow, or announced it with a singing telegram, we'd love to hear about it!

We'd like to feature some of your responses in an article on The Cradle, so feel free to give lots of details! Your story might inspire some other moms-to-be.
Jean
RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/11/09 12:25 PM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
I wanted to do something fun and quirky, but I just couldn't wait! I ended up calling him the second after I took the (third) positive test.
Karen
RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/11/09 2:16 PM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
We went through some fertility treatments, so the minute they told us we could check to see if we were pregnant, we did. I took two pregnancy tests, but they both came out negative. We were bummed but decided to not let it ruin the vacation we had planned to Mexico. Just in case I brought another one to try there. After a few days of fun (read: margaritas and guacamole), I took it one more time... and this time it was positive! Oops! My husband was right there with me, so I didn't get to surprise him, but just seeing the positive sign was a surprise enough. Needless to say, the tequila stopped right then and there!

 

 

~misty~

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/11/09 4:06 PM as a reply to Anonymous.
I had just had a D&C done on July 9th 2008, so I thought it would take a little while for me to get pregnant again. On August 12th I decided to buy some pregnancy tests just in case. I had been charting my basal body temperature and it showed that I had ovulated. I took the first response test and it showed up postive in about 30 seconds! I was in complete shock! My husband was in the living room and I ran up to him and showed him the test and he smiled and said "that was fast." I took a total of 5 pregnancy tests and two blood tests to comfirm my pregnancy. Even the nurses and my doctor were amazed that it happened so quickly after my loss!
MonnieB

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/12/09 5:38 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
My husband is a football fan, so I always thought that I would tell him by giving him a baby-sized football as a gift. However, when the big moment arrived, it didn't quite work out that way.

We were planning a HUGE adult Halloween party on the night of the 31st. We had been off of birth control for 9 months, but nothing had happened yet. My cycles were really irregular - ranging from 4-8 weeks. I decided I would take a test when I woke up that morning (6:15am) just to be sure that it would be safe to imbibe that night. Imagine my surprise when it came out positive! I stared at it for a few minutes before deciding that I just couldn't hold this news in.

My husband had been sick with a cold for the past week or so, which meant that he was sleeping in the guest room so as not to disturb me with his coughing. He works the evening shift, and so often doesn't come to bed until after 1:00am. At 6:30am I ran into the guest room, jumped on the bed, and told him that I needed him to wake up so that I could show him something. His eyes opened, and I held up the test for him to see. He stared at it for a few seconds and mumbled something about not knowing what the h*ll he was looking at. So I explained it to him, waited for it to slowly sink in, and his reaction was, "wow." Once he was conscious, however, he became a lot more excited and has been an amazing partner ever since!! Thinking about it just now reminds me that I still need to go out and buy that football...
schnooksmom
RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/12/09 5:44 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
I was 34 and it was our first month trying, so we didn't think there was a chance in hell of us getting pregnant. I was supposed to have an MRI and they had recommended that I take a pregnancy test, just in case. I didn't. I didn't think there was any way I could be pregnant.

I drove over an hour to get to the MRI testing facility, battling terrible morning traffic. I arrived to find out.....I had the date wrong and had to come back the next day. I begged. I pleaded. They apologized but told me there was no room for me to have the test. I was furious, of course.

The next morning came and I decided I might as well take the pregnancy test, just to cross all the "t"s and dot all the "i"s. I took the test while my husband took the dog out. I took it twice. I took it twice because the first one came out with a line just the lightest shade of pink. As did the second one, only this time it was a "plus" sign that was the lightest shade of pink.

My husband came back in. I looked at him and said, "Well, I'm not NOT pregnant," and showed him the tests.

We were both in complete shock. I traded in my MRI for a visit to my OB and, sure enough, I was 12 days pregnant.

A very artful photo of those two pregnancy tests now adorn our baby album.

 

 

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/12/09 10:34 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
My husband was sleeping when I took the test. He took me to the store the night before to get the test, but I couldn't wait for him to wake up. As soon as I got the positive, I started crying with excitement and went to wake him up. He said "oh I'm sorry we'll have to try again." I handed him the test and he asked why I was crying since this was exactly what we had wanted for so long. We spent the rest of the day looking at baby stuff and calling family!
mitchaboard

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/12/09 3:14 PM as a reply to Katie923.
Well it was truely a shock for both of us.I had three already from a previous marriage. Ages 17,15,13. When we married he didnt want more. I always wanted at least one more if i remarried. He stuck to his guns though. But i noticed he never requested we use protection, so i never mentioned it either. After a year I gave up. He didnt change his mind and my body didnt either. I had battled problems with stomach ulcers that entire year as well. I finally found a medicine that worked long term. Never looked back to the ulcer specialist again....Im a school teacher and this horrible virus was all over our school. Students were sick, administrators were sick, and suddenly lots of teachers were too...I just knew the bug had gotten me. But after two months and everyone else getting better but me, i decided it was time to see a doctor. When i did, he asked me about what i was feeling. We both decided it was time for me to go back to my ulcer specialist. But before he would refer me, he asked me all the usual health questions,,,,WHEN WAS YOUR LAST CYCLE,,hmmmm good question..since i dont keep up with it because it is so irregular, i hadnt a clue...but we were both so sure it was the ulcer we didnt concern our self much with the question.However he did say he needed me to take the pregnancy test even though he was sure it would be negative..well needless to say it wasnt!! We both sat in disbeleif only my disbeleif was filled with tears..i had excepted there was no baby for me,,and anyway my baby was 13...it was ok to have no more. Its almost time for freedom again. I drove home in tears. I got myself together just before entering the house. My husband was already lying in bed..he simply asked did he refer you refer you to the doctor? I replied yes...(well it was true, but an ob doctor instead) and that night not another word was said about it...Well the next morning about 5:30 a.m I woke up thinking about the evening before. I felt guilty and deceiving about holding this information from him regardless of how he would accept it..so i woke my husband up. He was a little out of it, but responded whats wrong? I took his hand and placed it on my belly. He then asked are you hurting? I said no, but do you feel anything? he replied, no, should I? I responded, Well not now, but in a few more months you will....he immediately woke up! Are you pregnant? I answered yes...He was silent for several minutes it seemed but i think it was only seconds..he was first shocked and then angry that i had held the news from him so that we couldnt be excited together. After a couple of DAYS he was over his quiet anger and settled in with the idea. I first knew this because he text me with a boy name...haha. Hes been to every appointment since the news. Last week we found out, we're having a boy! His first and only biological child. It was a beautiful sight as I watched him wipe the tears from his eyes when the Dr. broke the news. He's already in love with this baby, and so am I!
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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/13/09 4:25 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
July 10, 2008 - I wasn't quite feeling right. I was due to start my cycle that weekend, but I wasn't feeling the same as I usually do right before my cycle starts. I had one pregnancy test that I had gotten as a gag gift from one of my friends at my bachelorette party. I took the test, and almost immediately saw the little "+" in the window. I didn't have the box or anything, so I wasn't 100% sure if it was positive or not, although deep down, I knew it was. I tried looking up the pregnancy test online to see if I could find out how to read it, but I couldn't find it anywhere. I went to bed, not telling my husband what just happened.

July 11, 2008 - After work, I ran to the store to try to find the same kind of test. I did, and it confirmed that the little "+" meant pregnant. Thinking maybe the tester was wrong, I bought another pack. I also picked up a tiny little card with baby feet on it, just in case the second one said I was pregant too...which it did. I took the little card and wrote, "Ready or Not DADDY - here I come!" When my husband came home from work, I gave him the little card and he just stared at it for a couple of seconds, stared at me, back at the card, back at me, and then said "Serious?". I smiled and started to tear up, he got this huge goofy smile and hugged me for nearly 5 minutes.

 

 

kdyke

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/15/09 3:41 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
We had been trying to have a baby for only 3 months and I had only had my IUD out for 4, so on Christmas morning 2008 I was 3 days late for my very regular peroid, so I took the test. I left it on the sink in the bathroom and went and had breakfast. I can back up to get dressed, and there it was - a little positive staring at me! I put the test in a kleenex and put it in my pocket. My botfriend was just waking up when I wnet in our bedroom and I said Merry Christmas and hand him the kleenex. He was just as suprised as I was.
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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/15/09 7:18 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
Well My husband is in the military and at the time, he was at training from august '07 to august '08. We were talking on the phone one night and decided we were ready to have another child. Well being he was gone.. it was alittle difficult since i only seen him 4 times within that year where we could have tried to have a baby and each of witch visit was of course the worst time of the month for me... go figure, but we didnt really expect that we would get pregnant during these few visits anyway, but of course we were gonna try . So during my last visit to go see him in April was our best chance since i was staying for a week and a half instead of only a few days.
So anyways... come May a couple days before my cycle i decided to take a pregnancy test and being the impatient person that i am, after about 1 minute of looking at it and seeing only one line, i of course discarded it. I called my husband and sadly told him i wasnt pregnant. Well being myself for some reason i always have this thing where i have to go back after about 10 minutes and look at the results again on the test i had taken. Knowing very well that you cant trust a result on the tests after the 3 minutes. But of all the tests i had taken in the previous 5 years... not one of them has EVER changed from a negative to a positive when i went back and checked it. Except this test turned out to be different! So being on the phone with my husband still i chose to take another test and this time... i actually waited the full 3 minutes :P and right at that 3 minute mark sure enough that second line faintly showed up!! So of course the first thing i did was go to the store and buy 2 more different tests and they as well showed up positive.
My husband and i were extremely surprised and super excited! and he was even more thrilled when he finally got to come home 4 months later to see my the tiny little belly i was starting to get!
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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/18/09 5:22 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
After my last son was born I began to take the pill. For the last 12 years I've been on the pill. Suddenly I began to feel weird, I thought I had a bad cold that wouldn't go away. After doing 3 home pregnancy tests and all negative, I assumed I had some other ailment.
I went to a GI specialist and after I told her all my symptons and included the fact that I hadn't gotten a period for about 3 months she decided to do a blood test. Two days later I get a phone call and the specialist said there was a perfectly good explanation for my upset stomach, I was pregnant! Needless to say I was floored! I began to cry with feelings of excitement and sadness. I immediately called my husband at work and told him the news. He was so surprised he couldn't even get a word out! We thought we were done having babies. Well, after three wonderful boys we now have a beautiful and healthy 4 month old baby girl.

 

 

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/18/09 5:32 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
I was in shock that it was true!!! We had been trying for over a year! He was in the bathroom and as soon as he came out I grabbed his hand and pulled him in the bedroom and showed him.
July4Baby

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RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/18/09 8:27 AM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
I took him out to lunch at one of his favorite restaurants to celebrate our 22 month anniversary one day late. I gave him a card that said "Congratulations" on the front of it because he'd survived 22 wonderful months being married to me! ;) He opened and read it. It said "Enjoy this moment, because you made it happen." Which to me, is hilarious...and SO appropriate! Then, I signed it Sarah and Baby...he was shocked and surprised. We just went to the same restaurant yesterday to celebrate that we found out we were having a girl!
Christina
RE: How Did You Tell Your Partner You Were... | 2/18/09 12:07 PM as a reply to Cate Cradle.
My husband happened to be home the morning that I took the pregnancy test. We had been trying to conceive for almost a year and had just had "the conversation" about stopping our attempts and enjoying our two young sons...we are both in our 40's and were advised by a physician that our fertility had likely dried up. So, I took the pregnancy test with the intent of just getting it out of the house and being done with ovulation predictor kits and pregnancy tests for good. When the test showed positive I brought it to my husband and asked how many lines he saw on the stick. He replied "two" and started to get a smile on his face because he thought the "stick" was an ovulation predictor test and that it was time to knock knees before the boys woke up (apparently forgetting our previous conversation about our likely fertility status). I gently asked him to examine the stick and tell me what kind of test it was....his face said it all when he finally realized we were pregnant. He didn't seem to mind that the knee knocking would have to wait for another time.
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