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Just not feeling wonderful
keska222

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Just not feeling wonderful | 9/20/09 6:10 AM
I am approaching my 8th week and I just don't feel like doing anything. I have a slight feeling of nausea most of the day, I lack energy and just don't feel 100%. I am hungry a lot, I eat, then feel extremely full and nauseous. I also feel bad for my husband b/c I don't really enjoy my skin being touched. Will this end in the 2nd trimester?

thank you
Jennominal

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RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 9/20/09 10:04 AM as a reply to keska222.
I never experienced the nausea, but everything else is perfectly normal and expected. A lot of women don't feel like being touched at all during their entire pregnancy so don't be surprised if you are disgusted by the thought of it for a LONG time! It is your hormones! Good luck to you and your husband! If he is anything like my husband he will try and try for it, relentlessly, which pushes me away more, until you explode on him...then he will learn. My husband eventually gave up. Its weird though because my last pregnancy I oculdn't get enough sex, I suppose they are all very different!
jentomchak

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Joined: 12/31/07
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RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 9/20/09 4:37 PM as a reply to keska222.
First, congratulations on your pregnancy! Second, I totally understand how you feel, even down to not wanting to be touched! While every pregnancy is different, you will probably see these symptoms disappate or disappear shortly after getting into your second trimester. I felt great up until about week 6. After that I started experiencing the symptoms you are having (I can best describe the feeling of nausea all day as feeling like I was hung-over). I came home from work most days and fell asleep, because I was exhausted and I was trying to sleep through the nausea. I also found myself super hungry, and if I didn't eat as soon as I felt hungry or right before, it didn't matter what or how much I ate, I still felt nauseated, sometimes more than before I ate. In terms of not feeling like doing anything, I had was the same. At one point my husband offered to hire a cleaning service! By then, I was coming out of the all-day nausea and was starting to have a few good days where I would take advantage of feeling good. Again, every pregnancy is different; a gf of mine approached 8 weeks and was sick as a dog... for only two weeks, then she was fine. As I approached 9 weeks, I started vomiting (though I felt sooo much better each time I did, still not 100%, but better). I was hoping to be like my friend and only experience it for a couple of weeks, but it continued through week 17 or 18. I finally started to feel normal around week 20; the nausea went away completely and my energy came back. I still can't eat certain foods that I normally love, but it's partly due to how it affects me (either heartburn, acid reflux, or just doesn't taste right). One thing that helped me was making sure that I kept hydrated and I felt better. Amazingly, water tasted so good. If you add lemon, even better. Keep crackers and water (or whatever you find working for you!) close by at all times. Good luck and again, congratulations, it will go by quickly and hopefully soon you'll be feeling better!

 

 

Starrmander

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Full Term
RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 9/20/09 6:47 PM as a reply to jentomchak.
Oh I can relate..I felt just the same way..almost like you are sick with something and you just can't move or do anything. I think I had all the awful 1st trimster problems a person can have, and I'm happy to report that I started to feel better around 13 weeks. One morning you just wake up and your belly is a little bigger and you don't feel so awful. Just take every nap you can, don't eat a lot during your meals, eat smaller meals through out the day. Tell you hubby to stick in there with ya, cus you will feel more like yourself in a few weeks. Good luck to ya!!!
melissamoore

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RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 10/15/09 4:28 AM as a reply to keska222.
I'm in my 7th week (first pregnancy) and I feel like a stranger in my own body! I'm nauseous all of the time, have heartburn every night and am so tired I can hardly keep my eyes open at work. I know this is all "normal." But it is getting difficult to hide my symptoms at work when I don't want co-workers to know. Any tips on how to handle 1st trimester symptoms at work?
JennyM

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RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 10/16/09 4:56 AM as a reply to melissamoore.
I felt exactly the same way. Everyone kept telling me how lucky I was that I was not getting sick, but I did feel nauseous ALL the time. It was worst for me in the mornings and in the evenings. I was also very very tired. Some days I had to take a break and sneak away at lunch to grab a snooz in my car. My husband was very understanding but couldn't relate and didn't want to be in bed by eight o'clock the way I did - I was just exhausted all the time!

As if adjusting to a constant state of nausea and zombie like exhaustion are not enough, I am 13 weeks now and starting to show. Now I really feel like a stranger in my own body. I am super excited to be pregnant and can't wait to meet our baby growing in my belly, but the changes to my body are totally bizarre. I wonder if everyone feels this way when their bodies begins to change?

Good luck!

 

 

cgripon

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RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 10/17/09 5:25 AM as a reply to keska222.
I had horrible morning sickness for the 1st trimester. It helped to eat small portions of blander foods like crackers and pasta. It also helped to take my prenatal vitamins before bed with a small snack. I hope you get to feeling better soon. Congrats!
melissamoore

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RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 10/19/09 9:28 AM as a reply to JennyM.
Thank you for the confirmation that what I'm going through is normal! You're right: husbands just don't understnad! However much they try I'll have to try taking a snooze in my car over my lunch hour (might get cold during the Illinois winters though LOL). Thanks again.
Mrs.White

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Full Term
RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 10/19/09 3:09 PM as a reply to keska222.
keska222:
I am approaching my 8th week and I just don't feel like doing anything. I have a slight feeling of nausea most of the day, I lack energy and just don't feel 100%. I am hungry a lot, I eat, then feel extremely full and nauseous. I also feel bad for my husband b/c I don't really enjoy my skin being touched. Will this end in the 2nd trimester?

thank you

 

 

Mrs.White

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Posts: 2
Joined: 2/22/09
Full Term
RE: Just not feeling wonderful | 10/19/09 3:16 PM as a reply to Mrs.White.
Hang in there! I felt the same exact way, I would feel very hungry,then take one bite and couldnt eat anymore. I thought it would never end, finally about 2-3 weeks into my second trimester I started to see the light at the end of a very long tunnel. Now I'm able to enjoy feeling my baby move around! This was a unique experience that brought bout my husband and I closer together.