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My baby fights sleep!
kim.abc.123

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My baby fights sleep! | 11/7/09 10:47 AM
Please help me! My baby fights sleep! I feed her, rock her and then she falls asleep in my arms. As soon as I put her down, she crys that frantic, freaking out cry! Can anyone give any suggestions as to what I can do to help her or help me! Thank you!!!!
girlygirl87

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RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/9/09 12:47 PM as a reply to kim.abc.123.
You probably have already tried this, but swaddle her nice and snuggly, if you have a vibrating bouncer that she can sleep in near you that may help too! Good luck hun!
ladybox

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RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/10/09 7:16 AM as a reply to kim.abc.123.
kim.abc.123:
Please help me! My baby fights sleep! I feed her, rock her and then she falls asleep in my arms. As soon as I put her down, she crys that frantic, freaking out cry! Can anyone give any suggestions as to what I can do to help her or help me! Thank you!!!!


I've heard that you should just leave them to cry themselves back to sleep. If you keep running to pick her back up then that's what she will expect every time. It will come in handy later when she's older and you are trying to work on a bedtime routine with her. The first few times you will just have to figure out your tolerance level with how long you can stand for her to cry but she will get the routine down quickly and it will be less stressful for mom and baby. Just as the magazines and newspapers talk about reading with baby at an early age because their brains are sponges this is the best time to start routines with your children too.

Remember: You are not a bad mom for leaving your child to cry because you are trying to start a routine with them. Your child is going to cry anyway...why not be productive with it!

 

 

tguest

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RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/11/09 9:19 AM as a reply to kim.abc.123.
You just have to let her cry it out. If you don't put a stop to it now...the older they get the worst it gets. Try giving her a nice, warm relaxing bath before you feed her...make her so relaxed that she'll fall into a little coma and won't even notice that shes no longer in your arms.
Sue
RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/11/09 12:53 PM as a reply to kim.abc.123.
i found that sleeping with my little one helps with that - remember they are little for a short time. they are learning to trust and you are the number one source. babies learn one thing crying it out - they cant trust you to be there for them at that time. - i have 5 the oldest of which is 15 and they will eventually want to walk away from you usually before you are ready but if you hold them till your arms just cant hold them anymore then continue to hold them you wont miss them when they walk away from you when they are ready.

it is so sad when a woman says "i miss when s/he was little" or "i wish s/he was little again" - how that mother and baby were short changed by "well meaning" advice
A Guest
RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/12/09 2:28 AM as a reply to kim.abc.123.


Your baby needs to learn to "self-soothe" Rock or hold him/her for a few minutes until he's sleepy but NOT asleep. Put him down and rub his back or tummy and then leave the room. If he fusses, give it up to ten minutes and go back in and rub him again. Do NOT pick him up. He needs to learn to put himself to sleep. Good luck!

 

 

conniann
RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/12/09 5:56 PM as a reply to tguest.
when you finish giving her the bottle,and you see she is getting drowsy,then put her in the crib. So she is tired but she puts herself to sleep. Im a new first time mother. my baby is 9months. I tried the cry it out thing,but I dont like the way it works. you just leave them to cry, I feel like they feel abandoned. If I do put her in the crib and she cries, I rub her to let her know Im there. I had problems with my baby the first 3 months she wouldnt fall asleep in the crib, only if she was on our chest. then she discovered her thumb at about 4months and that soothed her, and she went to bed on her own. good luck.
Sltyenpnh

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RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/17/09 9:23 AM as a reply to kim.abc.123.
My daughter is 4 months old and fights her sleep sometimes.. what I do is I wrap her in a blanket and hold her really tight up against me and then she normally goes to sleep of course I am also rocking, bouncing something NOW when I know she is asleep and not fully asleep I will put her in her swing and then when we go to bed I get her out and take her to her bed and she normally does good the rest of the night. She sleeps thru the night, but sometimes it's hard to get her there.. but try that see if it will help!
elizabeth
RE: My baby fights sleep! | 11/18/09 5:31 AM as a reply to kim.abc.123.
kim.abc.123:
Please help me! My baby fights sleep! I feed her, rock her and then she falls asleep in my arms. As soon as I put her down, she crys that frantic, freaking out cry! Can anyone give any suggestions as to what I can do to help her or help me! Thank you!!!!


I had the same problem and found that swaddling worked wonders. also, i would let my son fall asleep in my arms and after 15 minutes or so when he was in deep sleep, i'd put him down then.