WOW - that is really hard to deal with! I wouldn't let it go too much further though. I would ask him about his true feelings about being in the role that he is in. Ask him all those questions you've had running around in your head, and eventhough you may not like the answers, be stong for you and your son..... if it turns out that he is really unhappy, then you should be prepared to discuss moving on in diffrent directions. You don't want him to have resentment toward your son and have him grow up miserable too! Sometimes splitting is better then staying with someone who makes you miserable. I stayed with a guy once for two years who treated me like your boyfriend treats you and toward the end of those two years i found out I was pregnate. I ended up termnating the pregnancy, because as it turns out he only "felt" responsiable for the situation, and nothing esle. Ouch... once i asked him about his true feelings, and everything was out on the table, I went my own way because as it turns out, he said he would resent the child to a certin drgree, and I didn't want my child to grow up that way! I was torn apart and so depressed, but I got through it.
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