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Not a happy mother-to-be | 5/21/09 6:55 AM

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I am so mad at my b'f mother right now. See our car is in the shop and we were borrowing his parents old car. Well his mother got mad cause he would not let her mother borrow $150 dollars that we don't have and come and took the car back. Not olny that when she was talking to him she called me a houchy because she is mad at him for not going back to his ex-wife. She says that i'm the reason for all of the stuff that has went wrong. Well she doesn't even know that we're going to have a baby. I really would like for to be envoled but not with her acting like this. so if anybody has any advice it would be nice

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RE: Not a happy mother-to-be | 5/21/09 8:01 AM as a reply to Anonymous.

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My ex-mother-in-law was the same way with my other 2 children by her son. She blamed me for everything. My advice to you is not to let it stress you. One, you need to think of the baby and two she needs to realize that she needs to think of the baby as well. I would let her know you are pregnant and that you dont need the stress. tell her if she cant calm herself she can stay away until she can. your bf needs to back you on this as well.

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RE: Not a happy mother-to-be | 5/21/09 1:33 PM as a reply to firefighter.

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thanks i know we need to tell her but you see his divorce is not final yet and she still talks to his ex everyday and we don't want it to mess up his divorce.

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RE: Not a happy mother-to-be | 5/22/09 4:05 AM as a reply to Anonymous.

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I agree...your boyfriend needs to tell his mom to lay off. She doesnt have any right to call you names. Try to ignore her as much as you can...you def don't need any stress. It's not good for you and your little punkin'! You need to focus on you and the baby and let the rest slide...

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RE: Not a happy mother-to-be | 5/22/09 1:52 PM as a reply to Anonymous.

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I have the same issue. We just call it the mother in law curse

!! I have known my husband for 17 years. Grew up with his family right down the road.
She was SO happy on our wedding day, but literally HATES me now...even as I am ready to give birth to her 6th grandchild by her son!! Hopefully it will pass with yours, but as the other posters have said, try to not let it get to you!! Remember that you are bringing a beautiful baby into this world and as long as you and your bf can stick together, all will be right in your little piece of the world!!!
Good Luck,
Marcie

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