I also tried to plan a pregnancy so I would have the baby in the summer. Things didn't quite work out that way! I have now been TTC for 3.5 years. We have started fertility treatments. I just completed my first IUI yesterday. Now we don't care when we have a child as long as we are able to have one. So don't spend too much time planning when you want to have a baby, because you may not be able to conceive right away. It was a hard reality for us to face. We definitely took it for granted!