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Categories » Trying to Conceive » Trying to conceive while breastfeeding

Trying to conceive while breastfeeding
mom23cuties

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Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 4/24/08 8:05 PM
I am still breastfeeding my son who is 4 1/2 months old. I still have not started my period since his birth, but that is not my concern since I did not start my period after the birth of my daughter until she was 10 months old.

I know you can get pregnant while breastfeeding, but how do you know what is the right time? Are there any signs to look for? Has anyone ever tried this? I just wasn't sure if anyone knows anything about this.
Mrs.Mommy

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RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 4/26/08 3:23 AM as a reply to mom23cuties.
Most doctors recommend waiting a year before conceiving again to give your body time to bounce back from the previous child. Waiting will also lessen the chance that the next baby would be born prematurely, like my sister who is 1 year, 1 month younger than me.
cmagness

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RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 4/28/08 10:07 PM as a reply to mom23cuties.
My mom got pregnant with me while she was breastfeeding my sister. we are only 10 months and 9 days apart...obviously she didn't mean to get pregnant so soon. I am and always have been healthier than my sis and mom had no problems with having us so close together. Now this isn't something I would recommend, but it worked out ok for our family

 

 

Noell

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RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 5/1/08 6:47 AM as a reply to mom23cuties.
There is a reason why doctors recommend that you don't try to get pregnant so soon after having a baby...it can be very tough on your body and tough on the baby (of course this isn't to say that things couldn't turn out completely fine either as plenty of women have done this). I would highly recommend looking into charting just to get a grasp as to how your body is recovering from your last pregnancy & the demands of breastfeeding. In most cases you can really figure out if and when you're ovulating while charting, even if you're breastfeeding and/or still haven't had your first postpartum period. Also, keep in mind that if you're still breastfeeding and you do end up getting pregnant this is extremely taxing on your body.

(Alittle about me: I ended up getting my first pp AF when my DD was 14 weeks old, started charting right after and figured I probably didn't ovulate for the first 3-4 cycles which were each 28-30 days long. I got pregnant again when my DD was just short of 12 months old and I was still breastfeeding her. I am almost positive my supply started to decrease just before I got pregnant but it was almost nothing by the time I stopped breastfeeding at when my DD was 16 months old. During the 4 months that I was pregnant and breastfeeding I was horribly sick and extremely tired all the time...I'm convinced it's because my immune system was so taxed and I couldn't keep up with the nutritional demands of being pregnant and breastfeeding because I had horrible morning sickness. I am now 35 weeks pregnant and while I miss breastfeeding my DD I have much more energy than I did while I was still breastfeeding, even at this stage in my pregnancy.)

Sorry so long but I hope you find peace in whatever decision you make!
mom23cuties

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RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 5/6/08 6:38 PM as a reply to Noell.
I appreciate all the advice. I wasn't meaning trying to conceive this soon. I meant when he was closer to a year old. I breastfed my other two, also-my older for 1 year and my daughter til she was 18 months old. I will definitely take into consideration everything that was said.
snowball164

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RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 10/28/08 12:23 AM as a reply to mom23cuties.
I was able to conceive while breastfeeding...Therefor my kids are 12 months apart. Both babies healthy, on time and over 9 lbs each at birth.

I can't tell u any secrets about how to do it since i wasn't exactly aiming to get pregnant...it just happened.

but of course there's always the discharge becomes more slippery when ovulating...and there's always the ovulation tests. (like a pt except it tells u if your fertile or not)

Good Luck. I love having my kids at the span they are. And you CAN get pregnant while breastfeeding...as opposed to the ol wivestale.

 

 

Reece's Mom
RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 4/26/09 12:50 PM as a reply to mom23cuties.
Hey! You should get the book "Taking Control of Your Fertility." It is SO empowering to learn all the signs your body will give you if/when you are fertile again. You MAY ovulate before you start your period again one day, so there is definitely a chance of getting pregnant. SO if you read this book you'll learn how to tell when you're ovulating. It's also been very useful for me since I'm trying to get pregnant but haven't ovulated since i stopped breastfeeding six months ago. Good luck!
A Guest
RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 5/6/09 7:38 AM as a reply to cmagness.
this is test
Annaquin

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RE: Trying to conceive while breastfeeding | 5/8/09 9:43 AM as a reply to Anonymous.
All I know is you can My first 2 kids are 14 months apart...then a 2 year 2 month break, now my next 2 are only going to be 11 months apart!

Now that being said I tend to heal quickly from a pregnancy- I'm normally back to normal duty by the time I leave the hospital (I do watch myself carefully, but the last time I came home and cleaned the house- after 3 days away it needed done.) I wouldn't suggest that route to most though, because you can have serious complications if you push too hard too fast. But I think that goes hand in hand with why I'm able to get pregnant so fast after having a baby.